I can't handle it when my missus calls out her ex-husband's name when we have sex

I’m 38, she is 36. We have been together for a year and apart from this, we have a great relationship.

We rarely fall out but I can’t help but think she still has strong feelings for her husband, even though they divorced three years ago.

It has happened a few times now. She has tried to convince me I am the one she loves and wants to be with but I’m worried this isn’t the case.

I am starting to wonder whether it is worth us being together if she continues to call out his name.

DEIDRE SAYS: It does sound like this was a simple blip, due to the way our brains work.

If she was married for quite a while, her automatic responses are just stuck in a bit of a groove, that’s all. Don’t let your insecurity get the better of you. Hear her when she says you are the one she loves and wants to be with.

I hope you will soon see the funny side and be able to have a laugh about it.

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