A 28-year-old divorcee says she's “so young and hot”people can't believe she's old enough to already have an ex-hubby.
Now newly single again, Ilma Amin claims she has “sworn off” younger men because they're “so stingy” and asks why she should have to split the bill on a date when they have the “prettiest girl in the restaurant” spending the evening with them.
Ilma, who lives in Tower Hill, London, split from her husband of three years in 2022 after the relationship “broke down over time”.
Luckily, she had the support of her friends, who showed her “unconditional love” during her breakup, to get through the difficult time, and to celebrate, she threw a divorce party.
However, the party left her dealing with both a hangover and another breakup – as she was dumped by her new boyfriend of eight months just 48 hours later.
She explained: "I've sworn off younger men. They're so stingy I can't.
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“Even if they've got money I'm never splitting 50/50. I never did that with my ex-husband and he was younger than me.
"I'm not dressing up in my expensive outfit and makeup to split 50/50 when he gets to have the prettiest girl in the restaurant – me.”
Speaking about her dating tribulations further, Ilma said: "I'm in my 20s, I'm divorced and I'm back in the dating scene. And I'm purposefully choosing not to date men that are in my age group because they're stingy whether they're rich or broke.
"So I thought to follow advice on dating older men and I failed.
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“Sure they're richer and they don't expect you to pay on the date, but these old timers still play the same games as the young ones do. Like, sir, you're in your 40s. You have no visible hairline.
"This one time I dated a man in his 40s and he basically 'lovebombed' me, told me we were exclusive and I just went with it for the plot.
“Then my best friend tells me that he liked her profile on Hinge. It was embarrassing. Not for me, but for him."
When she meets new dates and tells them she’s divorced, it’s a “bombshell” that leaves people shocked because she is so “young and hot”, but she’s not ashamed about her past.
Ilma said: "I survived such a traumatic moment, why should I feel shame?
"I'm so young and hot, the stigma is kind of funny.
"When I drop the bombshell that I'm divorced it's entertaining.
"I [share my story on] TikTok in the hope it reaches women and men who are in s**t situations and they feel like they're stuck and that their life can't go on after divorce.
"I had to teach myself that divorce isn't a sad thing that happened to me.
Her failed marriage hasn’t put her off from finding ‘the one’, and for her divorce party she wore a “question mark ring” which showed she’s “not done” dating.
Ilma added: “I'm obviously going to get married again, so who's next? Who dares to be my next husband?
"If I need attention, I'll wear the ring out and say, 'reckon you can hack it?' Or maybe on first dates.
“[But] I want to be slow and conscientious about dating in the future.
"It was such a strong and intense romance with my ex-husband where we both weren't thinking properly about the future. We just thought we were meant for each other.
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"My next marriage won't be in my 20s. I'll wait until my late 30s.
"I definitely want to avoid another divorce, but if it happens again, I'm going to have to throw another party. There are expectations now.”
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