I don't want to have sex with my husband and I know it's not fair on him

My wonderful husband is in the military and has been away for the last 10 months.

We’re both 29. I missed him terribly and thought it was great he was coming home for Christmas. We kissed and hugged when he arrived but I was worried because it did nothing for me, when it always had before.

I just don’t want to be intimate with him. I have been feeling very down about this and trying to figure out what to do but I’m at a total loss.

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My e-leaflet on reviving sex drive explains self-help sex therapy so you and your wonderful husband can enjoy a brilliant Christmas.

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