DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my boyfriend but feel absolutely no sensation at all during sex.
I am 40 and was a virgin until we met. I have always been pretty overweight and ashamed of my body but I’ve finally found a man who loves me for me.
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He tells me I am beautiful and sexy, and he makes me feel good.
We have quite experimental sex, at his instigation, but I still feel nothing.
I have a sense that something bad happened to me sexually when I was young and that is why I shut off my feelings.
I just want to overcome this block and enjoy the sex life I have missed out on until now.
DEIDRE SAYS: Poor you.
My e-leaflet Abused As A Child? explains how you can find support so you can feel safe to unlock the past.
My e-leaflet Orgasm For Women will help you to tune in to your sexual responses.
But intercourse is often not what does it for women.
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