DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE dumped my boyfriend because he’d rather drink with his mates than be with me.
Now I miss him and I’m worrying I’ve overreacted.
We’re both 19 and have been together for a year.
When he drinks he gets carried away and forgets to call, or turns up at mine drunk in the middle of the night.
It’s caused so many arguments. We have a great relationship when he doesn’t drink and we love each other.
But he can’t say no to going for a pint with a friend – and then he can’t stop.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If he can’t say no to a drink, and it makes him behave differently, he may have a drinking issue. You should both read my support pack, Drink Problem.
If you want to sort this out, you need to talk calmly about your feelings and set boundaries for your relationship.
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