I moved to Canada for the perfect man – but he's a liar and married | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I MOVED halfway around the world for someone who I thought was the perfect man.

But now I know the truth – he’s a compulsive, married liar.

He’s 42 and I’m 39. We’ve been dating for three years after meeting online.

The conversation flowed from the minute we matched, and we both seemed to want the same things – a second chance at love and a house full of kids.

So at the end of last year, I took the plunge and moved to Toronto in Canada to be with him.

But a few months in, his neighbour told me to ask him about “Melissa”.

It turns out that he was actually married when we met.

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The pair only split two months before I moved over, and so the divorce he claimed was ‘sorted’ was only just starting.

Now I’m stuck thousands of miles from my friends and family and don’t know what to do.

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