DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend claims he has lost his sex drive.
He has not even touched me, let alone French-kissed me, or had sex with me. He hasn’t even cuddled me for months.
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It is driving me crazy.
We’ve been together for four years. He is away most of the week as he is a long-distance coach driver but he’s at home at weekends.
There used to be cheerful reunions every Friday but he is so stressed and dreary these days.
It should not be like this just because he is 48 and I am 46.
There must be something I can do to help restore his sex drive.
DEIDRE SAYS: First persuade him to check with his GP that there is no medical reason for being stressed and off sex.
If all is OK, tell him you want to try to boost your relationship and ease the pressure he clearly feels.
Start giving him a soothing and sensuous massage when he gets back at the end of the working week – and ask him to reciprocate in kind.
It can work wonders and lead to lots more. My e-leaflet Massage For Couples explains more.
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