My husband registered to be an organ donor and didn’t tell me…now I don’t trust him again – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: AN organ-donor card arrived in the post for my husband but he never told me and it fuels my lack of trust for him.

I know that sounds strange – being an organ donor is a good step – but he had an affair three years ago.


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It was his lover who told me.

He said the more I knew, the more hurt I’d be. So that’s why he said nothing.

We went to couples’ counselling at the time but now I’m left feeling like I can’t trust him again. We’re both 43.

DEIDRE SAYS: It is vital loved ones know if we want to donate our organs should anything untoward happen. But for you, the fact he didn’t tell you has brought back those old feelings of insecurity.

Tell him you are hurt he didn’t inform you about the card and your relationship therefore needs more work.

Remind him you need lots of reassurance that you are still the most important person in his life.

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