I can’t get it right for my partner – and as a result, she spoils things for me.
She tells me to hurry up, which makes things take longer, and can’t wait for us to be in our respective spaces as soon as it is over.
I’m 33 and my partner is 31. She refuses to let me use a condom but insists on putting a towel underneath us before we do anything.
She won’t let me touch her breasts and always keeps her top on.
I just don’t get it.
DEIDRE SAYS: It doesn’t sound like she’s having a great time sexually.
Maybe she finds the messiness of sex difficult. Or maybe she is not finding the way you are having sex very satisfying.
You have to talk about this together but you need to be using reliable protection unless you are planning to start a family.
My e-leaflet Is She Not Keen On Sex? should help.
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